Feminism is very important. You can't argue against it without being against both men and women.
Michael Kimmel, sounds good so far.
Wanted to read some of his books for a long time.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Kimmelread this first
Guyland : the perilous world where boys become men / Michael Kimmel. (2008)
Now I don't know if Kimmel ever goes into railing against
****, strip clubs, or the sex biz. I he does, of course I will not agree with with him. And plenty of pro-sex feminists who won't either.
I actually see the sex biz as compensating for the ways sex is made contingent on wealth and power in other venues.